Healing is not a one-time event…
It can begin with a one-time event …typically some sort of sudden loss that disrupts our projection of what the future might be!
However, the true work of healing is allowing that disruption to wake up from a deep state of UNCONSCIOUSNESS, to release the personas we adapted into, and begin CONSCIOUSLY piecing together the full truth of WHO WE ARE MEANT TO BE!
All our experiences are moments of reconciliation where we are asked to realize that….in the words of Michael Murphy….A GREATER LIFE IS PRESSING TO BE BORN….
IF we don’t answer the wake-up call …the wake-up call from that deep state of unconsciousness ….it will continue to show up in our lives often in similar patterns and feelings !………..AND the same wake-up call keeps coming in until our subconscious minds agree to embark on the journey of our own becoming !!! This is s process of fully restoring us into a remembrance of the perfect – whole and complete truth of who we are……It’s a LIFE-LONG GUEST because we must tend to the gardens of our minds on a DAILY BASES.
The longer we avoid doing so, the longer we will dwell on the series of events that arose on our paths for the sake of waking us up – rather than truly beginning the more difficult, but far more rewarding, work !!!
In many ways the journey of healing is not one chapter in your story, but, CHANGING THE WAY YOU WRITE THE ENTIRE BOOK
It’s a shift in the way you move through the world, moving from being disappointed that life has not met your every expectation to expanding your vision to perceive all of the MAGIC the WONDER the AWE the HEARTACHE the LOSS the GAIN the CONTRAST that makes us all PERFECTLY and UNPREDICTABLY HUMAN !!
Our healed selves are still feeling sad when it is time for sadness and grief when it is time to grieve and contentment on a more regular basis. They fear things that are unknown or important or both, but they (our healed selves) DO NOT ALLOW THAT EMOTION TO PREVENT THEM FROM MOVING FORWARD !!
Life can be deeply challenging and profoundly unfair….and without the ability to move through the feelings, we often become trapped in the old stories we once wove around !!!
When we are able to VALIDATE, ACCEPT, and PROCESS our own human experiences INDEPENDENT of anyone else ….something MAGICAL occurs.
We begin reconnecting with our true desires, heeding our subtlest instincts, and cease sabotaging our inspired thoughts and feelings….we begin to recognize that there is a common thread carrying us through each one of our experiences ……which is OUR SOULS SILENT GUIDANCE …..EVER-PRESENT….ALWAYS LEADING US JUST BEYOND WHAT WE CAN SEE IN REAL TIME!
This is our power and as we discover it we begin to trust it more and more, our lives begin to come back into harmony through our NEW GROUNDED-CENTERED perspective…
We realize that we were never really lost…WE WERE JUST GIVING OURSELVES SOME SPACE TO PROCESS BEFORE WE COULD MOVE FORWARD COMPLETELY!
YOUR FIRST PURPOSE IS TO HEAL ….